Kursus Kahwin?

Pre-marriage course. Note to my foreign friends: the marriage law in Malaysia needs people to undergo a short (usually 2 days) course before they can apply for a marriage. You’ll be given a certificate, which literally qualifies you to get married in this country. Or something like that. What do they teach you in the pre-marriage course? Marriage stuff, of course :P (dont ask me, I’ve never been to any, yet, so I have no idea).

Well, Az is in the hometown attending his pre-marriage course today (today & tomorrow, in fact). I hope he really pays attention, instead of falling asleep in there (which I wont be surprised if he is anyway, knowing that he stayed up last night for work =.=).

Me? I have not yet attended any course, and it makes sense that I’m supposed to do it too, probably soon. But I’m in between busy and lazy, and how could you expect that I can occupy my mind with another sudden new thingy like speeches about marriage and laws when right now all I know is a huge partition of my mind is fully occupied with questions like what on earth is this (2p+1)x(2p+1) window in this image Fuzzy algorithm?? I mean, window??? What window?? Cant I use the image size mxn instead like most algorithm to work on every image pixel? And why I need to solve other people’s methods in the first place when I already got mine working and giving result? Why make it so complicated?? Agh.


Back to topic, the pre-marriage course. It’s actually finally I know the useful thing with the fact that I went to religious high school before, and with the Kelantan State Marriage Law’s Dept is actually giving me the┬áprivilege┬áto be exempted from taking the pre-marriage course as I did the Sijil Menengah Ugama (SMU) exam back then during Form 4 and I own the SMU exam certificate, and I dont know the relevance is, but it doesnt matter coz WHAT MATTERS IS I DONT NEED TO GO PREMARRIAGE COURSE IN ORDER TO GET MARRIED! Yay. It does save my life now.

Never mind the fact that I barely remember anything of the Fiqh subject I studied for the SMU cert – which covered a bit of many things of Islamic marriage laws (come on, it’s 10 years ago, and doesnt everyone learn things at school for the sake of exam only and later we forget everything?).

Not that I object the idea of going to the course – going anyway even though I’m fully qualified for an exemption (ceh, cakap besar pulak hehe), but I think in this critical time I’ll just make use of the exemption for the marriage application purpose, coz I really dont have time and mood and a sane mind to go some formal and spiritual and legal session like that. At least not now. Okay, maybe I’m a bit lazy actually. And I’m not ready. For the purpose of polishing back the knowledge, maybe I’ll go to the course after the marriage, if needed. Can or not? ^_^

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  1. exempted huh? good for u, in a way.i’m attending the course 23-24th…it’s a relieved i got 2 days off from the boss..i said yes to the course (my FMIL arranged it for me) before even checking on the dates..haha..p.s:India..great getaway!

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