I am still lazy to take any pics right now. Pelamin masih tak siap. Hahaha. *masih sedaya upaya kerah idea to arrange the flowers*
If you think I’m nervous, you’re so wrong :) The day will be just another day to me, the only thing significant that it’s the day my status will change from single to married. I dont think I see the day as a bigass extravagant ceremony whatsoever. The guests are all my parents’ relatives and friends, most of whom I dont even know and they dont even know me =,= The kenduri/wedding lunch belongs to my parents. Not mine. Though of course, you’re normally expected to layan the guests as well when you’re the bride. I wish I could just sneak into the room after the akad nikah/solemnization/photo session and sleep ^_^ I wish.
I am NEVER a fan of weddings myself, so you can tell it by now. The only single wedding of friends I ever attended was Lenya’s, and it was only because it was Lenya’s. I never had such itch of obligations to attend any friend’s wedding invitation before this. And I’ll be fine if they dont turn up to mine as well :p
I am not a person who wants the very best of every single thing for the wedding. Like, yes it’s a day to remember and I’m so excited for the day but I just dont like following the standards and trends of others. And I dont like being told or advised to follow the standards. I have my own standard and I find it perfectly fine. (read: my standard is “not following any standard”, thank you ^_^)
Though it was even hard to make it real, with family and parents suggestions and ideas mixing together, in the end I have to be moderate with my own weirdness. Agh.
Life after marriage is way more important to plan and prepare rather than planning on wedding itself. Az says this and I totally agree. Maybe that’s one of the reason we do clique, hehe.
Oh, I got an interview call today! (Tiba2 off topic). Interview will be on Friday 11th Feb. So I can follow Az back to KL after the wedding, maybe Thursday, and fly back home on Monday.